Love & Money – The Surprising Wealth Predictor

Your Result – Fearful Avoidant

The Love & Money Connection

Your attachment style creates a blueprint in which shapes the relationship that you have with yourself, other people (romantic partners, family, children and yes… clients, employees, business partners etc etc) and directly influences the lens in which you view the world.

It also affects the relationship that you have with money and hence directly impacts your business.

Entrepreneurs with a dominant Fearful Attachment to money are often ambitious people who are incredibly adaptable because they have been through a lot earlier in their lifetime or during their childhood. You are likely to be passionate, hardworking, determined and independent. Your freedom is likely to be very important to you and you are likely to value growth and improvement. These types usually understand other people well, are supportive to people’s needs and opinions and quick to notice patterns and changes in their environment.

The Surprising Wealth Predictor!

Your Result – Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Your attachment style creates a blueprint in which shapes the relationship that you have with yourself, other people (romantic partners, family, children and yes… clients, employees, business partners etc etc) and directly influences the lens in which you view the world.

It also affects the relationship that you have with money and hence directly impacts your business.

Entrepreneurs with a dominant Fearful Attachment to money are often ambitious people who are incredibly adaptable because they have been through a lot earlier in their lifetime or during their childhood. You are likely to be passionate, hardworking, determined and independent. Your freedom is likely to be very important to you and you are likely to value growth and improvement. These types usually understand other people well, are supportive to people’s needs and opinions and quick to notice patterns and changes in their environment.

Although these types dream of the freedom, happiness and support that more money will bring to your life (and you know in your heart you are capable of achieving this) the process of receiving money is also connected to your greatest fear. This means you are likely to experience intense highs and lows when it comes to your income, relationships, life and business.

You want the money and the success but if you have not done any work to understand and master your emotions, you are likely to get triggered or become emotionally dysregulated easily and this can cause you to get in your own way and sabotage your success.

Subconscious Success and Receiving blocks

Entrepreneurs who have a dominant attachment style of Fearful Avoidance often have deep rooted success or receiving blocks and describe themselves as feeling ‘stuck’ or out of alignment during these times of disempowerment. They have big dreams and want the money and success but are often inconsistent and end up sabotaging themselves when things start to go well: For example, they may put their all energy into a project when money and success feel scarce but then not do the work or blow off leads when it is more abundant.

At times they are likely to struggle with feelings of self-doubt and imposter type feelings that stop them from showing up consistently and creating the life that they desire. They are ideas people and many struggle with shiny spoon syndrome, get bored easily or jump quickly to new things if not mindful of mastering one project at a time.

Although these types dream of the freedom, happiness and support that more money will bring to your life (and you know in your heart you are capable of achieving this) the process of receiving money is also connected to your greatest fear. This means you are likely to experience intense highs and lows when it comes to your income, relationships, life and business.

You want the money and the success but if you have not done any work to understand and master your emotions, you are likely to get triggered or become emotionally dysregulated easily and this can cause you to get in your own way and sabotage your success.

Subconscious Success and Receiving blocks

Entrepreneurs who have a dominant attachment style of Fearful Avoidance often have deep rooted success or receiving blocks and describe themselves as feeling ‘stuck’ during these times of disempowerment. They have big dreams and want the money and success but are often inconsistent and end up sabotaging themselves when things start to go well: For example, they may put their all energy into a project when money and success feel scarce but then not do the work or blow off leads when it is more abundant.

At times they are likely to struggle with feelings of self-doubt and imposter type feelings that stop them from showing up consistently and creating the life that they desire. They are ideas people and many struggle with shiny spoon syndrome, get bored easily or jump quickly to new things if not mindful of mastering one project at a time.

Although these types dream of the freedom, happiness and support that more money will bring to your life (and you know in your heart you are capable of achieving this) the process of receiving money is also connected to your greatest fear. This means you are likely to experience intense highs and lows when it comes to your income, relationships, life and business.

You want the money and the success but if you have not done any work to understand and master your emotions, you are likely to get triggered or become emotionally dysregulated easily and this can cause you to get in your own way and sabotage your success.

Subconscious Success and Receiving blocks

Entrepreneurs who have a dominant attachment style of Fearful Avoidance often have deep rooted success or receiving blocks and describe themselves as feeling ‘stuck’ during these times of disempowerment. They have big dreams and want the money and success but are often inconsistent and end up sabotaging themselves when things start to go well: For example, they may put their all energy into a project when money and success feel scarce but then not do the work or blow off leads when it is more abundant.

At times they are likely to struggle with feelings of self-doubt and imposter type feelings that stop them from showing up consistently and creating the life that they desire. They are ideas people and many struggle with shiny spoon syndrome, get bored easily or jump quickly to new things if not mindful of mastering one project at a time.

Polar cycles that keep you stuck

The push and pull that spills out into all areas of their life, relationships and business can sometimes become overwhelming – for example these types desperately want to feel loved but then may struggle to let anyone know who they really are on a deeper level through a deep-rooted belief that people just let you down; wanting to show up and be seen but then have intense feelings of wanting to hide, wanting to be successful but then worrying that they will fail or not get client results. In love, this is further exacerbated by the fact that fearful avoidants often naturally are attracted to toxic or emotionally unavailable partners that ultimately fuel deep rooted feelings of abandonment or insecurity.

If you have a dominant attachment of Fearful Avoidant you are likely to have a core need for growth, connection and to feel valued and understood. You may sometimes oscillate from people pleasing to standing up for yourself and although sometimes you may try to suppress it, your need for approval can often get in the way of your success. Your independence is both your greatest asset but can also hold you back as you sometimes pretend you are doing better than you actually are doing to avoid appearing weak and this can stop you from getting the help that would truly help you to soar.

Entrepreneurs who have an Fearful Avoidant Attachment style with money might exhibit some or all of the following thoughts, feelings and traits:

They are often independent and many of these types feel on a deeper level that they have not ever really fitted in; although when honest with themselves they crave to feel acceptance and a sense of belonging.
They experience emotional highs and lows with money, relationships and within their life / business
Although they want to have the success / money / love, it is also connected to their greatest fear
They have a deep-rooted fear of rejection that can cause these types to play it safe and stop them from truly stepping out into their power
They have a push / pull relationship with money / love. They want the success but then can be inconsistent and sabotage themselves by getting in their own way whenever things start to improve.
They might cling to money when there is not enough but then overspend when it is in abundance.
Their income is often not consistent with higher income months followed by lower income months.

Entrepreneurs who have an Fearful Avoidant Attachment style with money might exhibit some or all of the following thoughts, feelings and traits:

They are often independent and many of these types feel on a deeper level that they have not ever really fitted in; although when honest with themselves they crave to feel acceptance and a sense of belonging.
They experience emotional highs and lows with money, relationships and within their life / business
Although they want to have the success / money / love, it is also connected to their greatest fear
They have a deep-rooted fear of rejection that can cause these types to play it safe and stop them from truly stepping out into their power
They have a push / pull relationship with money / love. They want the success but then can be inconsistent and sabotage themselves by getting in their own way whenever things start to improve.
They might cling to money when there is not enough but then overspend when it is in abundance.
Their income is often not consistent with higher income months followed by lower income months.

Entrepreneurs who have an Fearful Avoidant Attachment style with money might exhibit some or all of the following thoughts, feelings and traits:

They are often independent and many of these types feel on a deeper level that they have not ever really fitted in; although when honest with themselves they crave to feel acceptance and a sense of belonging.
They experience emotional highs and lows with money, relationships and within their life / business
Although they want to have the success / money / love, it is also connected to their greatest fear
They have a deep-rooted fear of rejection that can cause these types to play it safe and stop them from truly stepping out into their power
They have a push / pull relationship with money / love. They want the success but then can be inconsistent and sabotage themselves by getting in their own way whenever things start to improve.
They might cling to money when there is not enough but then overspend when it is in abundance.
Their income is often not consistent with higher income months followed by lower income months.

Although your quiz results suggest that your dominant attachment style is Fearful Avoidant, it’s important to note that we all fall onto a spectrum and therefore often have a secondary attachment style that can be activated depending on the situation and the people that we are with. It is therefore recommended that you therefore become familiar with the other attachment classifications so that you can recognise if certain situations or people trigger different responses.

Here are an overview of the 3 other Attachment Styles and how they impact our business

Secure Attachment

Entrepreneurs who have a dominant secure attachment style with money might demonstrate the following qualities:

They uphold a core of stability and calm even when their money situation fluctuates
They believe on a core level that money will show up.
They trust that ultimately, they will be taken care of and supported.
They have established healthy boundaries with their money: regular accounting, being aware of their overall balance and credit cards, saving and good spending practices, etc.
They do not have a pushy energy and hence attract higher sales and client attraction
Are willing and open to asking for help when they need support
They have a core belief that their overall needs will be met, no matter what is happening in their outer world or in the bigger picture.

Dismissive Avoidant Attachment

Entrepreneurs who have a dominant Dismissive avoidant attachment style with money might exhibit some or all of the following qualities:

They often have a compulsive need to set big goals or make money
They connect their worth on their income earning ability or external achievements and take it very personally as if THEY have failed when things don’t go to plan.
Believe they have to work really hard to achieve the success they crave and are often ‘workaholics’
When hitting a big goal, these types don’t feel satisfied for long and often move straight to the next goal with little personal celebration over their success. This often causes them to have a deep rooted feeling that ‘something is missing’.
They often pursue making money over relationships and love. Therefore, often struggle to have success in all areas of their life (money, love and health).
They shut down from money when things get stressful (for example when business isn’t going the way they hoped or when an unexpected credit card bill needs to be paid they may just ignore it)
They often do not like to delegate tasks to others or ask for help therefore not only can this hold you back from creating next level wealth, it also puts these types at risk of burnout.

Ambivalent Attachment

Entrepreneurs who have an ambivalent attachment style with money might exhibit some or all of the following thoughts, feelings and traits:

They put other people’s needs before their own and often overgive to clients without seeing the financial rewards in their bank account
They don’t ask for what they are worth because of imposter type feelings, self doubt or low confidence
They struggle to trust their own decisions and seek external approval
They fear that people will not like or respect the ‘real them’
They don’t feel deserving of high income and success
They can have a lot of worries, fear or anxiety when money isn’t there as they are not sure when it will come again.
When money is not there, there is a feeling of abandonment that often gets activated
They have a core belief that their needs will not be met

Origin of Fearful Avoidant Attachment

A fearful avoidant attachment is typically rooted back to a chaotic childhood where the the child’s main early relationships (parents, peers, significant others) were often volatile, unpredictable, rejecting, neglectful or abusive. As a result a person with fearful attachment develops deep rooted energetic and subconscious blocks that, without healing, follows them into their adult life where their utmost desires are often directly connected to their greatest fears. This push / pull dynamic often ripples out into many areas of a person’s life including their relationships, business or career development and more.

Origin of Fearful Avoidant Attachment

A fearful avoidant attachment is typically rooted back to a chaotic childhood where the the child’s main early relationships (parents, peers, significant others) were often volatile, unpredictable, rejecting, neglectful or abusive. As a result a person with fearful attachment develops deep rooted energetic and subconscious blocks that, without healing, follows them into their adult life where their utmost desires are often directly connected to their greatest fears. This push / pull dynamic often ripples out into many areas of a person’s life including their relationships, business or career development and more.

How to take back your power

The good news is it’s completely possible to heal the resulting subconscious wounds and rewire your brain for a more secure attachment classification – so that you can take back your power and create the limitless wealth and soul level relationships that you desire.

Mindset work alone is not enough. By combining the power of both the subconscious and the conscious mind with heart energy activation techniques you can uncover and then heal the deep rooted energetic blocks that have held you back you since childhood.

Just imagine…

You are able to fearlessly explode both your confidence in yourself and your bank account.
You are magnetic to clients as you start to show up as the leader you know in your heart that you can become.
As you break through the cycle of self sabotage, you STOP hiding in the shadows and instead show up consistently to your followers and are LOVED for it.
The way that you relate to both yourself and others takes on a whole new level of connection, love and trust.
You are able to manage your emotions, boundaries and behaviours, attracting consistent abundance, success and inner peace into your life and business.
You experience a magnetic sense of enoughness that radiates out into everything that you do.
You start to see the success and impact ripple out into all areas of your life, income, romantic relationships and inner peace as the missing pieces of the puzzle start to fall into place.

We ALL have the power of rewriting our story and shifting our attachment classification to a place of security and balance.

Are you ready to create next level wealth and fulfilment, without the struggle of self-doubt or getting in your own way?

Book a FREE discovery call using the link below to explore how combining the power of the Subconscious mind, the Conscious mind and the Higher mind with Heart energy alignment techniques can help you to Quantum leap into your future self and feel UNSTOPPABLE in your pursuit to live a LIMITLESS life

Yes I am ready to UPLEVEL

Are you ready to create next level wealth and fulfilment, without the struggle of self-doubt or getting in your own way?

Book a FREE discovery call using the link below to explore how combining the power of the Subconscious mind, the Conscious mind and the Higher mind with Heart energy alignment techniques can help you to Quantum leap into your future self and feel UNSTOPPABLE in your pursuit to live a LIMITLESS life

Yes I am ready to become magnetic to abundance